{"id":590,"date":"2016-02-11T12:03:07","date_gmt":"2016-02-11T17:03:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/?p=590"},"modified":"2026-04-01T16:21:12","modified_gmt":"2026-04-01T16:21:12","slug":"what-can-we-do-with-criticism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/2016\/02\/11\/what-can-we-do-with-criticism\/","title":{"rendered":"What Can We Do With Criticism?"},"content":{"rendered":"

There are several things we can do with criticism:<\/p>\n

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  1. We can minimize it. <\/b>People who are busy helping advance the mission\u00a0don\u2019t have the time to complain! It\u2019s the people who aren\u2019t involved (and therefore aren’t having any fun) that have the time to complain. We can minimize complaints by getting people involved in advancing the mission by serving.<\/li>\n
  2. We can learn from it. <\/b>Sometimes people have valid complaints that might need to be addressed. But if we’re not careful we’ll take it as an attack vs an opportunity to learn.<\/li>\n
  3. We can cave to it.<\/b>\u00a0Sometimes we learn from criticism and make changes. Other times, we have to hold our ground and not cave in (if the complaint takes the church off mission).<\/li>\n
  4. We can teach on it.<\/b>\u00a0Through our preaching we can teach people to focus on the positive, not the negative.<\/li>\n
  5. We can invite it through foolish behavior.<\/b>\u00a0Without discretion and wisdom, we can invite criticism. For example, I know a pastor at a church in Maryland who took up the offering by thanking\u00a0the congregation for the staff outing and white water rafting trip. That’s foolish! The trip might have been necessary, but that’s not the kind of thing you highlight during the offering.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    There are several things we can do with criticism: We can minimize it. People who are busy helping advance the mission\u00a0don\u2019t have the time to complain! It\u2019s the people who aren\u2019t involved (and therefore aren’t having any fun) that have the time to complain. We can minimize complaints by getting people involved in advancing the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-590","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-leadership","7":"entry"},"featured_image_src":null,"featured_image_src_square":null,"author_info":{"display_name":"Mike","author_link":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/author\/mike\/"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/590","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=590"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/590\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1166,"href":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/590\/revisions\/1166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=590"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=590"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/withskillfulhands.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=590"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}