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Prayerlessness

September 9, 2014 By Mike Leave a Comment

A couple months ago I went to a leadership intensive at Church of the Highlands in Birmingham Alabama. It…was…awesome! But sadly, I could relate all too well to the following three comments by Chris Hodges:

  1. One of the side effects of not spending enough time in prayer is that you’ll begin loving crowds, but not people.
  2. We ought to have a relational prayer life with God and not just a rescue prayer life. In a relational prayer life you spend time with God just to nurture the relationship. In a rescue prayer life you only spend time with God when you need something.
  3. Ministry flows out of our personal relationship with Jesus.

Maybe these comments convict you as they did me? I knew that God was using this conference and Pastor Chris to let me know that my prayer life wasn’t where He wanted it to be. The old adage is true: The work of God can sometimes get in the way of the God you are working for – and that had become true in my life. So I repented the same day I heard this message on prayer and my prayer life hasn’t been the same since. Here’s what I’m doing different:

  1. Prayer is on my calendar.
  2. I’m using the Lord’s Prayer in Matthew 6 as a guide to lead me through my prayer time.
  3. I’ve made a prayer list.

As I’ve been more faithful in prayer, here are the side effects:

  1. I love people more.
  2. I have a relational prayer life, not just a rescue prayer life.
  3. Ministry is flowing out of my personal relationship with Jesus.

If you’re feeling convicted (as I did) when I evaluated where my prayer life was at, maybe you need to repent (as I did) and make the necessary changes. What’s the Holy Spirit speaking to your heart about your prayer life?

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